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Oanh’s story: Education for a future of her own choosing

date_range2026-10-19

“Girls don’t have to pursue higher education. Finishing Grade 12 is enough; then you can go to work and get married.”

Kim Oanh, a recent university graduate and former scholarship recipient of saigonchildren, heard comments like this throughout her childhood. Most of her female cousins on her father’s side followed the same path, leaving school early and going to work.

As she grew older, seeing the differences in the lives of the women around her made Oanh think more deeply about her own future.

She noticed that her aunts on her father’s side, who had had little chances to go schooling, often had unstable jobs and incomes. After getting married, they also became more dependent on their husbands and families. Meanwhile, her aunts on her mother’s side had received more education and most had stable careers, mainly as teachers, which gave them greater independence in their lives.

From what she observed, Oanh came to believe that education was not only an opportunity to build a better career, but also an opportunity to make her own choices about her life.

But for Oanh’s family, going to university was a dream that was far from easy to achieve.

“My mother has been in poor health for many years and cannot do heavy work. My father drives a three-wheeled cargo motorbike. He only has work when someone hires him to make a delivery or run an errand; otherwise, there is no work. It is already difficult for my father to feed the whole family, let alone pay for his child to go to university. But I also know that he loves me very much. I tell myself that even though I am a girl, I have to be strong and independent enough to take care of my parents, and prove my education is worth the investment.”

Throughout her high school years, Oanh cried many times because her father did not agree to let her continue her education due to the family circumstances. But she persisted. She asked her mother, her older sister and even neighbours to speak on her behalf. She promised that she would find a way to cover her own tuition fees.

Oanh kept that promise. Alongside her studies, she worked two or three jobs at a time, from tutoring to working at cafés, saving whatever she could towards her tuition. But there were times when these efforts nearly forced Oanh to put her studies on hold.

“I was angry with myself because I was so busy working part-time that I failed some of my courses, while the money I earned still wasn’t enough to pay my tuition. I thought, ‘Then what am I working for?’ I realised that I needed to focus fully on my studies again and cut back on my working hours. But then, where would I get the money? At that time, both my father and mother were ill, and my older sister was the only one taking care of them. I hadn’t been able to help her, so I didn’t dare ask her for money either.”

While she was still struggling to find a solution, Oanh received a scholarship from saigonchildren.

“The scholarship came to my rescue when I was going through the most difficult time. If it hadn’t been for the scholarship, I really wouldn’t have had any other choice. I would have had to put my studies on hold and work, hoping to return to university later.”

The scholarship did not make all her difficulties disappear. But it allowed Oanh to reduce her working hours, focus on her studies and continue on the path she had chosen.

This year, Oanh completed her studies and graduated from the University of Science, Vietnam National University in HCMC with a degree in Environmental Science, specialising in Marine Environment and Resources. With a strong interest in science, technology and the environment, Oanh is now actively looking for her first job.

“I dream of travelling far and visiting many places to broaden my horizons, and I am determined to become financially independent. I want to study abroad and see how big this world really is. But after I finish my studies, I still want to return to Vietnam, where my parents and my hometown are.”

There may still be many challenges ahead, but we believe Oanh will continue to face them with the same strength and determination she has shown in making her own choices.

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